As my sophomore year has come to an end, I feel as though this year was filled with so many more life lessons than my freshman year. So without further nonsense, let’s get started.

1. If you don’t like what’s going on in your life/you’re unhappy with a situation MAKE A CHANGE: LET ME SAY IT ONE MORE TIME FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK IF YOU DON’T LIKE A FACTOR IN YOUR LIFE MAKE A CHANGE. This is one of the most important things I have taken away from my sophomore year. For example, during the fall semester, I hated the classes I was taking for my major. I was so incredibly unhappy with where my major was taking me and I didn’t feel like what I was doing was right. So one afternoon I sat in my room and took career path quizzes literally all day. Once I got over the fear of disappointing others and putting my happiness first, I changed my major. After I sat in my first advertising class of the winter semester, I knew the change was for the better.
2. Listen to your gut: Your gut, conscious, or whatever you choose to call it is always right. When it tells you to leave, get the hell out. When it tells you to speak up for yourself, let your voice echo from the mountain tops. When it tells you something isn’t right, it isn’t and you need to stick to your morals. Just listen to your gut, please do it.
3. Put yourself out there: This can be in a class, group, club, or whatever else life throws at you. If you just sit around and don’t push yourself to get where you want to be, you’ll never get there. Yes, yes, yes it is terrifying to possibly face  rejection. However, this way you’ll be getting your name out there and show people who you’re interested. Without change and stepping out of your comfort zone, you’ll never grow or get what you want.
4. Take the initiative: Be a leader. Stand tall. Take charge. Whether it be in a group project, sorority committee, or talking to someone new! If you want something take the initiative to get it because no one can read your mind.
5. Cry if you need to: While I’m very in tune with my emotions, sometimes I hate to cry. First, because I’m an ugly crier. Second, because there are times when I don’t want to feel any emotion and try to be strong. But this year I have learned that to feel better, you just need to let those tears flow! Once you’ve had your pity party, then you can come back happier than ever!
6. Be honest: It’s honestly as simple as it sounds. Tell people how you feel. They’ll have more respect for you when you do.

Well… I’m a junior. Holy heaven above it’s crazy. I’m so excited where life is taking me and I can’t wait to learn more! Love life, smile more, and enjoy the ride!

xoxo,

Marissa